Family Travels

More Oblication than Vacation

You've got a lot of nerve calling this a vacation. I'm chasing sun-punchy children around a murky pool with a spray-can of SPF, wondering how the oldest will survive on his all-Doritos-and-no-sleep diet and why the youngest appears to be missing a shoe. Just one shoe, not both.

I took off work for this. I got a dog-sitter. I'm spending a night just to park my car — the same car that's strewn with minuscule pegs from the inexplicably explosive Travel Battleship game.

This is not hell. I understand: It's family travel. It's togetherness-away-from-home. It's bonding-over-adventures and, more often, under adventures.

But it ain't my idea of a vacation.

Where's the cabana boy I was promised? Where's the bottomless blended cocktail and crisply pressed sheets? Where's the blessed silence? The divine stillness? The hallowed, hard-won sloth, for flip-flop's sake?

Vacations used to be different for my husband and me: isolation, rejuvenation, coconut libations. Our idea of bliss is sitting somewhere sunny, doing less than nothing, and consuming our weight (pre-vacation weight, to be clear) in guacamole.

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