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October 15, 2009

Infernal Artwork

What to Do with the Piles of Precious Creations


Some things are worth saving, of course -- worth preserving in a time-capsule that your kids can reminisce over when they're grown. But what to keep?

Most parents agree: 3-D projects have to go. Take a picture, if you must, but kick that diorama to the curb and quick, or you'll be buried by Junior's seventh birthday. Anything made of feathers or food must go, too. Let the kids help sort the "keepers" from the recycle-bin-bound.

"It's important that children learn to let go and organize important possessions," said New York City mother-of-three Sara Lise Raff. "Forming emotional attachments to inanimate objects may lead to a guest appearance on Oprah's 'Life as a Hoarder' episode."

When it comes to whittling the heap, moms say time is on our side. Hide artwork in a folder for a month and then go through it with your kids; you'll find the Crayola creation they cherished in October may have lost its appeal by November.

Beware, though. Clever kids can anticipate -- and thwart -- the purging session. "My daughter has gotten clever and now writes 'To Dad' on things so I won't throw them away," lamented Californian Marty Guise.


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As one who lost a lifetime of our now 18-year old son's artwork in the Tea Fire, I can only suggest that people take steps to insure whatever they do keep is protected and that they treasure whatever they do keep.

Santa Barbara can be a very cruel place

Tue Oct 20, 2009


My son, now 26, was a prolific drawer, mainly because we set him up with the art materials so that he could draw at any time, anywhere. I saved huge bags of drawings in my studio loft (I am an artist) thinking that someday they could be culled and saved to show when he became an artist ("early work of...."). Of course now, does anyone go through the work to make those choices? Who thinks of it? Who has time?
Oh well. There they sit.
Thanks for the article.
Seyburn

Seyburn Zorthian

Tue Oct 20, 2009


I lost everything in the Painted Cave Fire. No time to get anything. My life began at 20. My suggestion, download your pics to shutterfly, flickr, etc that way you always have it. You may not be able to get your computer.
On a more positive note, Congrats Starshine. I look your book and writing. I hope to take your class in the spring. Cheers!

Alissa Jesle

Tue Oct 20, 2009


I lost everything in the Painted Cave Fire. No time to get anything. My life began at 20. My suggestion, download your pics to shutterfly, flickr, etc that way you always have it. You may not be able to get your computer.
On a more positive note, Congrats Starshine. I like your book and writing. I hope to take your class in the spring. Cheers!

Alissa Jesle

Tue Oct 20, 2009


Congrads on the award. Like the new photo, makes you look taller.
Nice story. As one who tried to
save EVERY_thing my daughter put
her marker on, I lost that battle
along with those prized articles in a house move matter. Another
story, not unlike today. Enjoyed
the story and all the comments 2.
Wouldn't mind a copy of the "sub dog" sounded very unique...

Edward

Tue Oct 20, 2009


Now than I'm past the half-century mark, and my parents are preparing to pass into eternity, they're mailing me stacks of my childhood drawings. Time may be looping back into a circle, because I'm trying my hand at art again. I wish that they (and I) had kept more of those! They had plenty of room in the attic!

Ross

Tue Oct 20, 2009


I used to be attached to every little item that came from my parents, from my childhood, and from my son's childhood. Then, after he had a serious head injury that made it clear he would never have children, or even be able to remember and enjoy my saved mementoes, I realized that I had been attached to them for posterity's sake even more than my own, and I sadly let them go.

Dominique

Wed Oct 21, 2009


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